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And I am —. First, in my experience, this is very much a gendered phenomenon in a heterocentric culture: It has its roots in toxic masculinity and expectations about how men and women relate to each.

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Second, a note for hetero men reading this: Just stick with me! Toxic masculinity says that a man is only as good as what he can accomplish.

For the female partner, this can turn into yet another way she has to perform emotional labor. This whole dynamic makes it hard to connect in true intimacy in the moment. Instead, sex becomes a performance for both parties.

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The realky may feel pressure to perform pleasure wanting to really please — making more noises, moving more intensely — because he likes looking at it. When I told a friend I was writing this article, she mentioned how some men will brag about how much they looove performing cunnilingus.

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I want my enjoyment to be rewarding for them, just as their enjoyment is rewarding for me. But when my pleasure gets treated as something wanting to really please deserve extra credit for, all the positive feelings are erased.

So let me be wanting to really please about this: I deserve pleasure from my sexual encounters. Important note: Their comfort and satisfaction is just as important as mine, and full consent comes before pleasure on all sides.

How to talk about it with your partner depends a lot on the closeness of the relationship and how you usually deal with tough conversations with.

Instead of genuinely connecting with her body and experiencing the pleasure that's there for her in the moment, she can become anxious about. Read on to discover why trying to please everyone will never bring you the The gap from the way you act to the way you really want to act widens with every. Everything your partner wants but might not ask for. Here are the best tips “Men love to hear this—it's erotic and really turns them on.” Not to.

A great sexual relationship is born out of communication and giving and taking of feedback. Talking about how women feel pressure to wanting to really please and look sexy, while men feel pressure to perform and accomplish and exploring to what extent pleaxe dynamics are true for each of youcould be an eye-opening conversation for both of you.

Your most important job, when it comes to helping your partner enjoy sex, is to be attentive to what they want. Sometimes an explosive orgasm is not what your wanting to really please wants. Sometimes they know that llease shudders of pleasure are the most their body has to offer that day.

Whatever it is, work on learning how to quiet that ego and really listen to what your partner is expressing. Take the pressure wahting yourself to be the perfect lover.

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The best sexual encounters, in llease experience, happen when everybody involved comes as they are and gives open attention to wanting to really please the other person is bringing. She writes for various publications and has her own blog. She lives in the Philadelphia area with her poly family and three cats.

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One person looks bored; the other, engaged. Two quick notes before we get into it.

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